Miss Tila Tequila is a PERFECT example of how to use the entertainment industry to get excatly what you want. This Houston-raised, Vietnam born Scorpio turned down a return to her show "A Shot At Love" for a second season cuz she actually found love...But, she had to break some hearts to get there.   No other reality dating show on tv has ever shown both guys and girls going nuts over one person. Congrats, Tila!!!